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  I really blew it......I am the nightmare householder!

  by Why Georgia in

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  i really blew it yesterday.

  we had just gotten home from a very long day and we were contemplating what to do for dinner and then a knock at the door.

  the sister was back with an elder and he asked to speak to my husband...completely got his name wrong.

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  Why Georgia:

  Thanks for your response. I hope for your sake you keep the attitude you have today. My point all along was that the two gentlemen did have the right to visit your husband in the first place, without being threatened.

  The situation is totally different now and I'm sure they will honor your wishes. It sounds like they've only heard you say your husband doesn't want to talk to them. If he would speak up it could have been all handled without police intervention.

  In another life, my husband spoke for me. He had no right to. He spoke his thoughts and said they were mine. Each of us has the right to speak for ourselves.
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  I really blew it......I am the nightmare householder!

  by Why Georgia in

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  i really blew it yesterday.

  we had just gotten home from a very long day and we were contemplating what to do for dinner and then a knock at the door.

  the sister was back with an elder and he asked to speak to my husband...completely got his name wrong.

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  sKally:

  You are right. You've proved me to be a liar! You are wrong that I intended to come back though. Sometimes life throws you a curve ball and you retreat to places that were familiar. Not that there was any affection for me here but it was a familiar place.
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  I really blew it......I am the nightmare householder!

  by Why Georgia in

  1. jw
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  i really blew it yesterday.

  we had just gotten home from a very long day and we were contemplating what to do for dinner and then a knock at the door.

  the sister was back with an elder and he asked to speak to my husband...completely got his name wrong.

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  unbeliever:

  Yes, 'private property IS private property'. In WG's first post she threatened the two gentlemen. They were not there to see her. They were there to see 'hubby'. (Darling). They had every right to visit him without here harassing them. It seems that 'hubby' still hasn't told them to quit visiting. Maybe WG would do well to let 'hubby' speak for himself.

  In the same situation, not too many would return. You have to give these two gentlemen credit for their concern for said 'hubby'. In a household with that kind of language thrown around, he likely is afraid to cross her. Could cause serious health problems.

  Her order of restraint will hold water but I'm sure the police will add a note that she is unstable.
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  I really blew it......I am the nightmare householder!

  by Why Georgia in

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  i really blew it yesterday.

  we had just gotten home from a very long day and we were contemplating what to do for dinner and then a knock at the door.

  the sister was back with an elder and he asked to speak to my husband...completely got his name wrong.

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  unbeliever:

  You seem to have overlooked my saying to read WG' first post. It is where she (admittedly) becomes unbent and threatens the two gentlemen. At this point she had not called police or written out a statement against them. Therefore; you totally missed my point. You really should read everything before you make decisions.

  Did I say I had anything against typists/secretaries? You should not assume so much ... like I will not assume that since you are neither, that you must be the janitor (a worthy occupation).
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  I really blew it......I am the nightmare householder!

  by Why Georgia in

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  i really blew it yesterday.

  we had just gotten home from a very long day and we were contemplating what to do for dinner and then a knock at the door.

  the sister was back with an elder and he asked to speak to my husband...completely got his name wrong.

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  fairchild:

  I'm sure your story of the 'gentleman' with the bucket gets much laughter. If he had said the same thing to the 'Avon' lady, would the police have reacted the same? I don't believe the story for a moment anyway ... no matter where in the world you live ... dumping excrement on anybody is against the law. Good story though ;)

  I disagree with you. If you blow up (no matter the circumstances) then you are an unstable person. A stable person looks at the whole picture and deals with the situation rationally.

  Try to picture WG at a PTA meeting. Her son has been centered out as a bad example for doing something wrong. Would you want to be the one to tell her she has a problem? As people get to know ones like her (unless she changes), no one really wants to be around a loose canon.

  It is with her good at heart that I even address this situation.
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  I really blew it......I am the nightmare householder!

  by Why Georgia in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i really blew it yesterday.

  we had just gotten home from a very long day and we were contemplating what to do for dinner and then a knock at the door.

  the sister was back with an elder and he asked to speak to my husband...completely got his name wrong.

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  unbeliever:

  I'm sure your attorney (boss) will be most amused that his typist/secretary is so up on the laws. Maybe you could fill in for him/her when they are sick.

  Really .. who would you expect the police to believe? A screaming, ranting woman (her own admission) or two quiet and orderly gentlemen who are visiting to speak to the man of the house and are being blocked by said 'woman'.
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  I really blew it......I am the nightmare householder!

  by Why Georgia in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i really blew it yesterday.

  we had just gotten home from a very long day and we were contemplating what to do for dinner and then a knock at the door.

  the sister was back with an elder and he asked to speak to my husband...completely got his name wrong.

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  I neither sneer or laugh at WG. I'm trying to show her the whole picture. It is what a friend would do ... even though I don't know WG to consider her a friend ... the ones here who profess to be her friend should do as much.

  Really read her first post ... forget for a minute that these are JWs. Thinks of them as old aquaintances. Does flying off the handle accomplish anything? Does it not make her look like the one who needs help?

  The police will see her for what she portrays herself to them. I know the notation I'd put in her file!
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  I really blew it......I am the nightmare householder!

  by Why Georgia in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i really blew it yesterday.

  we had just gotten home from a very long day and we were contemplating what to do for dinner and then a knock at the door.

  the sister was back with an elder and he asked to speak to my husband...completely got his name wrong.

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  WG:

  You say "Darling husband is going to have to do something because I am not going to be a prisoner in my own home and I am not going to play nice any longer."

  Hate to see the place if you weren't playing 'nice'.

  Did it ever enter your mind that the police will do as you ask but there will be a note in your file with them that you likely are considered psychotic.

  Your 'friends' on this site who are egging you on and showing support are not laughing with you ... they are laughing at you. Try reading over this thread with a clear mind and see if I'm not right.
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  Am I wrong to feel this way

  by stillajwexelder in

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  i am supposed to love being with the brothers at the kh.

  i can not wait to post on this board.

  i prefer the intellectual emotional stimulation of the people on this board.

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  Steve ... I mentioned a few posts ago that anything further on that topic would be redundant ... that's why I didn't respond again.

  At the moment, there is nothing in particular I care to discuss, but thanks for asking.
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  Am I wrong to feel this way

  by stillajwexelder in

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  i am supposed to love being with the brothers at the kh.

  i can not wait to post on this board.

  i prefer the intellectual emotional stimulation of the people on this board.

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  a friend in need

  EvilForce .. "if you want to call me evil so be it".

  I don't want to call you evil .. just said you picked a strange name for yourself. If your present religious beliefs are based on the bible, you have to admit, EvilForce is about as strange as it gets.